Setting a unique message sound for individual contacts on your iPhone 16 can be a game changer—helps you know who’s texting without unlocking, which is kinda handy. This isn’t rocket science, but if you don’t do it carefully, it can feel kinda frustrating. Here’s some steps that actually worked for me after messing around a bit.

Step 1: Open the Phone App

First off, open the Phone app. Yeah, the one with the green icon. That’s where most of the magic begins—unless you’re trying to do this through Contacts directly, which works too, but I find the Phone app quicker.

Step 2: Find Your Contact

Tap on Contacts at the bottom (or just dial through the list in the Phone app). Now, on some setups, the contacts list can be a little laggy or wonky—you might need to type the name in the search bar if your list is huge. Find the person you wanna customize and tap on their name.

Step 3: Enter Edit Mode

In the contact details, look for the Edit button—top right corner. Tapping that brings you into the editing view. Now, on some phones, this takes a sec to load or doesn’t update immediately; just be patient or try closing/reopening if needed.

Step 4: Find the Text Tone Setting

Scroll down a bit until you see Text Tone. This is where the magic (or chaos) happens. If you don’t see it right away, sometimes toggling between the contacts and back helps. On some iOS versions, you might need to check if your ringer/music volume is up because the sound options won’t play if everything’s muted.

Step 5: Pick Your Sound

Tap on Text Tone. You’ll see a list of ringtones—some familiar, some not so much. On one setup, it worked fine, on another, no sound on pick. That’s because of software quirks or maybe a glitch. Tap a few to preview—they start playing automatically. You wanna choose your weird ringtone or the classic “Cascade”? Go for it. Just be aware: some custom sounds might not show here unless added via iTunes or third-party apps, which sometimes is a pain.

Step 6: Save Everything

Once you pick a sound you like, tap Done at the top right. Then, back out of the contact by hitting Done again—this saves your change. Easy enough, but I’ve seen people forget the last step and then wonder why it’s not working.

Extra Tips & Common Issues

Here’s some other stuff I ran into that might help you avoid the same head-scratching moments:

  • Make sure your device isn’t on silent. The “mute” switch messes with notification sounds.
  • Check your volume level and the ringer switch—these are obvious, but sometimes overlooked.
  • If the tone you want isn’t showing up, you might need to add custom ringtones via iTunes or an app—because of course, iOS makes it harder than it has to be.
  • Restart the phone if the sound still isn’t applying—sometimes a quick reboot cleans everything up.

When this Might Not Work

If after trying this, nothing changes, it’s possible some settings are locked or your iOS version is bugged. On some versions, the contact’s message tone just refuses to update unless you tweak a few other settings or update iOS. Also, be aware, that if you’re using a synced contact from another account, those might override local settings.

Summary

  • Use the Contacts method or directly go through the Phone app
  • Find your contact, tap Edit
  • Scroll to Text Tone and pick a sound
  • Tap Done to save
  • Ensure your volume isn’t muted or silent mode isn’t on
  • Restart if changes don’t stick

Hopefully this shaves off a few hours for someone. Because honestly, Apple’s sometimes making me work harder than necessary just to change a ringtone.